Thursday, January 26, 2012

The 99 Percent

They say that 53 percent of the wealth of the country is owned by one percent of the people.

On the streets of New York we see immigrant workers on bicycles delivering food orders in the rain to customers who don’t even have to come out of their apartments to eat. The disparity between the affluent and those with few resources seems particularly apparent to me sometimes.

In his State of the Union address, President Barack Obama seemed to choose this topic as the theme of his re-election campaign. “We can either settle for a country where a shrinking number of people do really well, while a growing number of Americans barely get by. Or we can restore an economy where everyone gets a fair shot, everyone does their fair share, and everyone plays by the same set of rules.” He spoke of reclaiming or restoring our basic American values.

I am wondering about the demographics of the Baby Boom generation. Baby Boomers were born between 1946 and 1964. They are currently between 48 and 66 years old. This generation makes a huge bulge in the population of the country, constituting approximately 25 percent of the population, and the later generations are not as large. Do the younger generations think that the Baby Boomers took all the money and are keeping it for themselves? I must say, nothing is trickier to interpret than money statistics and financial reports.

But the point is well taken that some few individuals are amassing ever-greater amounts of money in the form of income, while the rest of us watch helplessly as prices go up. $20 used to pay for my groceries, but now I sometimes have to pay $60. We also watch helplessly as the cost of our medical insurance policies or prescription drugs rise by leaps and bounds, if we are lucky enough to have medical insurance coverage in the first place.

The oldest Baby Boomers are just now becoming entitled to Medicare and retirement through Social Security. The media bombards us constantly with stories saying that the Social Security system is running out of money … How could it be running out of money, since most of the Baby Boomers are still employed and are still paying into the system? What we hear in the media often does not make sense.

Anyway, most medical insurance in the U.S.A. is provided voluntarily by employers, and it is no secret that a person can be employed full time and still not have medical insurance.

Speaking about the haves and the have nots, the lawmakers in Washington have their own special medical insurance and therefore may be completely out of touch with how the “99 percent”—most of the people—are living. Maybe the lawmakers should try applying for Medicare and see how they like sorting through THAT pile of paperwork. After all, this is what the country expects the average senior citizen to be able to do, and most of the members of Congress ARE senior citizens. 

Some Questions for Discussion:

1.     Does economic inequality necessarily have an effect on democracy?
2.     What does wealth inequality mean in practical terms?
3.     Can economic inequality be seen and felt, or are these merely statistics?

Copyright © 2012     Barbara A. English
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Friday, January 20, 2012

The Pursuit of Happiness

Some things can be hunted down, but happiness is not one of them.

Money cannot buy happiness. If it could, so many wealthy people would not indulge in self-destructive behaviors or commit suicide.

Regarding marriage, we were conditioned as children to expect “to live happily ever after.” But think of the couples you know. How many of them appear to be happy?

Regarding happiness in families, it should be no mystery by now that all families are dysfunctional and it is only a question of the degree of dysfunction. All family members are capable of pushing each others' buttons, as the expression goes. If we want peace, we must learn how to value peace.

The best way to avoid or stop an argument is to refuse to say anything. This is difficult, because we human beings enjoy the pleasure of fighting over and claiming our supposed rights.

A good case could be made that most people actively pursue misery, thinking that they will find happiness like a pot of gold waiting for them as a reward at the end of a life of self-sacrifice and suffering. Happiness is the opposite of that.  

I can consciously intend to be a happy person today. I can choose happiness without making it into a hunt or a chase. I can wish for happiness and then let that wish go. I can be happy today without paying for it first through suffering. I don't have to pay for happiness. Happy is something I DECIDE to be.

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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

For Emotional Balance: The Bach Flower Remedies

With the help of The Bach Flower Remedies, we can heal ourselves of most emotional imbalances. A few drops of Aspen or Mimulus, for example, and an anxiety state will disappear.


There are 38 Bach Flower Remedies. They come in 20 ml (0.7 fluid ounce) brown glass dropper bottles. One usually puts drops into water to be sipped as needed. I have found this book very helpful: The Bach Flower Remedies, Revised Edition, copyright 1997 by The Dr. Edward Bach Center.

Wild Oat is a fundamental remedy. When we take it for four consecutive days, we shall become clear about our main concern in this life; what we want to accomplish.

Olive is for exhaustion and Sweet Chestnut is for the depths of despair. The remedies are specific and much work has gone into differentiating one from another. For example, Hornbeam is for the kind of tiredness we feel in the morning or at the beginning of the workweek. We feel we are lacking the strength to get through. Later in the day or later in the week, however, we see that we have gotten through. Olive is used when the person has no reserves of energy left and is completely wiped out.

These flower essences make a fascinating study, and I certainly encourage you to begin your investigations immediately. The work of Edward Bach is not known as widely as it should be. If you are not able to locate a professional practitioner where you live, you may need to practice on yourself, but nothing will be lost by doing so. You will learn how to help yourself and perhaps help others as well.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

From Aesop's Fables: 'Sour Grapes'

One hot summer's day a fox was strolling through an orchard until he came to a bunch of grapes just ripening on a vine hung over a high branch. 

"Just the thing to quench my thirst," he said.

Drawing back a few paces, he took a run and a jump, and just missed the bunch. Turning around again, he jumped up, but with no greater success. 

Again and again he tried to reach the tempting grapes, but at last had to give up. He walked away with his nose in the air, saying: "I am sure they are sour."
 
Moral: It is easy to despise what you cannot get.

And so, if someone says he dislikes an obviously good thing, we say the person is suffering from "sour grapes." 

This wisdom is from the Aesop's Fable entitled 'The Fox and the Grapes.' It is a good example of how the ancient wisdom of these fables can be found in everyday English conversation.

The story above was adopted from the online version at www.aesops-fables.org.uk.

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