How to Forgive When You Don't Feel Like It by June Hunt

Some people think they could never forgive someone who hurt them badly. But to forgive is simply to "turn it over" to a Higher Power and stop holding feelings of resentment. We do this for our own good, not for them.

Maybe I can forgive that person but it is not advisable to restore a relationship with them. "Reconciliation," writes June Hunt, "involves a change in behavior by the offender." If the person who hurt you does not acknowledge the wrongdoing and demonstrate remorse, it is only common sense to avoid them. 

However, there are exceptions to every rule. If you have few friends, you might want to resume contact with the person who hurt you and didn't apologize, so as not to be too much alone.

You might pray for this person. You might pray that they become less selfish and more mature.

The Screwtape Letters by C.S.Lewis

C.S.Lewis (1898-1963) was a learned man who also became a very popular writer. In The Screwtape Letters a senior demon is instructing his nephew, a novice, how to tempt an ordinary man so that he loses his soul. C.S. Lewis was a member of the Anglican Church, which is close to Roman Catholic theology.

In our scientific era, we are encouraged not to believe in spirits interfering in human life. A person can say he or she is a religious or spiritual person and not believe in spirits. Apparently C.S.Lewis's time was a transitional period in which many belief systems were in existence simultaneously. For example, Lewis himself was an atheist for a while after World War I.

In the Screwtape Letters everything is backwards, and God is referred to as The Enemy. Perhaps the book is a satire; I don't know. In any case, it is very amusingly written; funny and serious at the same time.

How to Love by Thich Nhat Hanh

How to Love by this Buddhist monk is truly delightful and would make a good gift. Although the book itself can be read in one sitting, the truths it presents could take quite a long time to put into practice. For one thing, the author assumes that we are willing to look within ourselves and learn to love ourselves before thinking we are ready to love another. In many ways the outlook of the author is quite refreshing!

Talk to the Snail by Stephen Clarke

If you need a laugh, this would be a good book to read. Stephen Clarke, an Englishman, wrote this book about living in France. We Americans think of the French as stylish and reserved, but this book details many of their low down human faults and flaws, which seem hilarious by contrast with our image of them. For example, did you know that the French hate to wait on lines and will push and shove with their elbows to get to the front? Usually they are so civilized! 

Anita Diamant, The Boston Girl

I enjoyed this book, and I think you will, too. It is about an immigrant girl who step-by-step creates a successful life for herself in the United States. It takes place mainly in the early twentieth century and has a particularly good chapter on the Spanish flu, which was really a modern plague. This book is remarkably well-written, a pleasure to read.

There is a River by Thomas Sugrue

This book is the biography of Edgar Cayce, America's famous medical intuitive. His clairvoyant powers came alive when he went into a sleeping state. In his lifetime he diagnosed and prescribed treatments for approximately 14,000 patients, including his own wife and son.

He himself found it hard to believe that his psychic powers were good and beneficial. As a person, Edgar Cayce was known as a particularly modest and down-to-earth man, a loving husband and devoted father to his children. Deeply religious, he doubted his gifts. As his life unfolded, many of these doubts disappeared, and he was at one time running a large hospital in Virginia Beach, Virginia. The hospital has been rebuilt today and is run by the organization Cayce founded, the Association for Research and Enlightenment.

Anu Partanen: The Nordic Theory of Everything

This book helped me see the big picture of life in the United States as opposed to life in a Nordic country. We Americans like to say that the U.S. is the best country in the world, but Anu Partanen shows us at great length why this is not true anymore. The chaos of our healthcare system, our convoluted tax system, and rising school tuition are just a few of the obstacles to our success and happiness.

The author also explains why the Nordic countries enjoy being what she calls "well-being states," as opposed to what we often hear-- that they are undesirable socialist "nanny states," stifling creativity and enterprise. She explains that Finland is not a socialist state, but an advanced capitalist state.

I thought her chapter on education was stimulating and her chapter on heath care systems was passionate and extraordinary. You would think a book about social structures would be weighed down with heavy language, but that is not so. It is very simply and clearly written.